Your wedding should feel authentic to you. If it feels fake or like a costume party then you’re missing out on one of the greatest community celebrations of you + your partner’s relationship. (And all of the tips & how-to’s in the world will not matter if it only creates someone else’s dream instead of yours.) I will be writing more on an authentic wedding next week, but I first wanted to share this inspiration with you. It was originally posted by my friend Lacey here.